Monday, 17 January 2011

A Change In the Winds

Sometimes when it is just not worth it ,  i don't really 

see the reason why people pull through making a hell out 

of life for themselves and their loved ones for 

completely worthless and trivial issues.....

you know you're going to get back talking after all that 

yada yada shit..

well if its something small.. you better let   it go ,just 

put into that beautifuly carved drawer of the "unspoken 

words" ....

it'll not be forgotten

forgiving these  lil things in life make a huge diffenrnce 

there is absolutely no point in holding your stake against 

your loved one when you can very well spend the same 

time making memories

the way you are going to react to something is the whole 

difference in how you are going to shape your future

atleast your immediate future

this is not one of the “hey you gotta be nice to every 

other idiot down the road “ stuff…

so believe me or not.. make your choice... abandon or 


starting from the way you react to your younger sister 

breaking your new pen to reacting to your own peer 

group.. its in your hands to shape up things....... 

reactions shape up the world around you..

its upto you to go screaming your head off, freaking your 

lil sis or giving her a loving kiss and letting go....

..for after all human relationships are more important 

than materialistic concerns.

the same could be put through for the “situations” that 

happen between friends...,

a simple misunderstanding or “over reacting “ (which so 

beautifully finds its way into every teenagers life) can 

lead to dragon fire spitting between the two friends…

this ofcourse did happen to me and one of my friends…

until today..

........wen I really learnt not hold my grudge… I was in 

no hurry to pick up a fight… I dint react to what she 

called a over reacting text :D

well god knows what she may be going through and if I 

can play my little role by not adding a load of my pile of 

dumbness to her plate it wil be a well appreciated 

favour… and quite predictably the issue ended in “hugs 

love yu”

 this would be in line for every1 of us…

and ofcourse this would only be my point of view from 

being a teenager,.. there is more to this . .. a wider 

field in the adult scenario which is sadly  ignored 

people don't just understand the value of letting go of 

tiny lil issues...

letting go can make or break a relationship...

the issue in hand…... in crystal clear words ...........

if your  buddy shows his or her anger at you.. think once 

before you react..

he or she may need a hug or  a reassurance that she r 

he is loved by you.. but instead they encounter more 

harshness to their already full plate....

now given that you react the right way.. and if they did 

apologize… accept it wid goodwill..cuz they’l mean it :D

for they are your friend in the end its going to be yu and them,,, why let these lil things tarnish the beautiful friendship? And evn if they dint ask a sorry.. once again no problem.. compromise.. wat r friends for afterall??

just let go.. go with the breeze ... no harm at all...